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Gay Weddings

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In the West we pride ourselves on our tolerance and support for individual choice, yet even in the 21st century the subject of gay marriage - male or female - is a highly divisive one. Most of the problems are related to long standing cultural prejudice and/or religious issues. If marriage is seen as fundamentally religious in nature and the religion concerned diapproves of homosexuality then gay weddings are hardly likely to be welcomed. As a result same-sex marriage remains unrecognised by law in many countries and regions.


Other countries are more liberal. Some countries such as The Netherlands now fully recognise gay marriage, others such as the UK have introduced civil partnerships or unions that convey many of the same legal rights as marriage.

History

Although the growing acceptance of same sex unions is a step forward, it comes only after a large step backwards. Many ancient societies had some form of officially recognised same-sex union - although there is debate about how closely these approximated our modern concept of marriage. Some believe they were closer to master & companion or teacher & student.


Male gay relationships were commonplace in ancient Greece. In Rome a number of emperors reportedly wed other men although these marriages were not formally recognised by law. But who would argue with the emperor?

Some Native American tribes also recognised a form of gay male marriage. In this instance a member of the tribe would embrace the traditionally feminine side of life. They were known as Two-Spirit men and could become the "wife" of another man.

In general the acceptance of gay marriage seems inversely related to the power of traditional organised religions such as Christianity.



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